The one that is causing me the distress is a living person. Actually, he is my xhusband

. It is so real that last night he or his soul self, I am unsure how to name this visitor, actually had his arms around me. From what I have been putting together I agree the visitor wants me to relay a message. Since the visitor has light around him, it must not be the same version of him I knew. The feeling I get from him is deep sweet love. This does not match my x as I knew him. What i seem to concluding is that it is his soul that is reaching to me screaming for me to let him know that he loves me. I am his match. He has shown me Us doing things together, spoken to me, shared something he wanted me to see. It is overwhelming and frustrating. I tried visualizing a bag in which I put it all in and took it to a ship to get carted away to South Pole and a door shutting the way for more. I told him to please stop. He has got to talk to the man himself. I was never able to get through before. But it seems to continue. I tried delivering the message again today to see if that alleviates the contact.
When i try to explain it I think he believes I'm trying to get him back like it's coming from me and It's not! Gee wiz!